I Know a Friend
I know what it’s like when life feels like it’s closing in from every direction...when the pressure is so heavy it feels like you're carrying the world on your back.
I know the ache of stretching every dollar, of counting coins and cutting corners, just to make it through another day.
I know the emptiness of forgetting the last time your smile was real, and the loneliness that lingers even when you're surrounded by people.
But I also know something else.
I know the quiet strength that lives inside a hopeful heart.
I know the power of remembering who you are and how far you’ve come.
I know the gratitude that comes from having a job that helps you stand on your own two feet.
I know the kind of laughter that bubbles up from your soul and reminds you you're still alive.
I know the courage it takes to reach out and say, “I need help,” and the beauty of finding someone who answers, “I’ve got you.”
I know the comfort of being wrapped in the love of family, and the resilience it takes to wipe away your tears, square your shoulders, and take that next brave step forward.
That’s why I can say this with my whole heart:
- I see you.
- I hear you.
- I know you.
I understand what you’re feeling, why you’re feeling it, and how heavy it can be. And if you ever need someone—really need someone—I’ll be here.
I’ll be the strength when yours is running low.
The smile when yours is hard to find.
The shirt off my back, the shoulder to lean on, the safe space where your secrets are honored and your truth is never too much.
I’ll be the friend who loves without condition, listens without judgment, and walks beside you through the storm.
You are not alone. Not now. Not ever.
You matter to me and I love you.
You’ve been so incredibly supportive of me as I’ve gone though the rollercoaster of “fiancé of a relapsing addict, then a fiancé trying desperately to get the addict out of the house as they’d become very abusive and finally when I found the cold , lifeless body of my addict fiancé 3 days before he was set to move out of our home. Through it all I knew that one person MEANT IT when she would say “I’m here you know, if you need to vent or cry or crash out or just talk” and it means the world . Trauma veterans recognize trauma veterans. We know when someone is holding on by a thread and we know what TO and NOT to say to help. Love you girl ❤️
ReplyDeleteTrainer to friend, until the end <3 loooovvvvveeee yooouuuuuuuuu
DeleteAnd I see YOU. ❤️ thank you for being a shining light in this dark world!
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